Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thoughts on the Madness of Black Friday

I think I have just watched one of the most disturbing video clips surrounding this year's hyped-up Black Friday Sales.  You can watch it below at the end of this post.

To top it off, I also saw an ad today claiming that the one who shops Black Friday early (by shopping on Thanksgiving Day, no less) will be a "Hero to their kids".

What??  Really?

I'll be the first to admit that I am a novice---a true novice---at being the mother that my children need me to be, let alone a hero.   But I do know that something is wrong, when a parent becomes a "hero" for focusing on shopping for the children on Black Friday, to the exclusion of Thanksgiving.

A hero, by definition, is a person of distinguished courage or ability, admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities. (Dictionary.com)

A parent is a hero when they love a child who is wayward, who is struggling, who is rebellious.

A parent is a hero when they are trying to be courageous, doing what has to be done, in order to provide for their family.

A parent is a hero when they are willing to listen to a child tell the same joke or story 101 times.

A parent is a hero when, however imperfectly, they strive to make Thanksgiving Day just that---a Day of being thankful for each other and for God's gracious provision over the past year.

Materialism is so rampant in today's world.  If you get the newspaper tomorrow, I imagine what you will find is that it is chock full of the latest, the greatest, the best, the newest, the must-haves for the season.

Don't get me wrong, I long to give good things, fun things, to my children. I so easily fall into the materialism trap.  I am the farthest, the FARTHEST thing from a hero.

But I think the video posted below and the seemingly excessive bombardment this year of Black Friday and Cyber Monday ads is a wake-up call.

Hebrews 10:34b states:

"you joyfully accepted the plundering of your property, since you knew that you yourselves had a better possession and an abiding one."

I JOYFULLY accepted the plundering of my property---does that mean that I desire for my property to be plundered?  No, I don't think so.  But I do think that the last part of this verse puts my property, the Christmas gifts I desire to buy for my children, and life here on earth into perspective:  I have, and I hope--I pray--my children will have, a better possession and an abiding one, but not here.  I long to go home.

May you have a beautiful Thanksgiving with your family.  I'm a lousy cook, but I am grateful for a day of thankfulness and time with my children--even if the turkey is dry and the pies get burned.  :)

Colossians 2:6-7
6  Therefore, as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, 7  rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving.

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